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/Our Netherlands-based contributor Loes talks about when your dream job isn’t what you’d hoped and the process of trying to change the course of your career.
Our Netherlands-based contributor Loes talks about when your dream job isn’t what you’d hoped and the process of trying to change the course of your career.
Why should women need to be better than men to deserve a seat at the table? Our UK-based interview contributor Dona Bouloud explores.
I resigned from my digital marketing job earlier this month. Some people tell me I was brave to take that leap, which lights up an alert in my brain telling me I am being irresponsible. So I have been thinking about risk a lot: who gets to take risks and whether, for those who take them and are lauded for it, their choices even count as risk-taking.
My plan in 2019 is to spend 75% of my time freelancing in marketing, branding and copywriting (oh hi btw, hire me*) and 25% scaling up and professionalising WIFP, getting proper funding and turning it into a fully-fledged organisation.
So I do have plans for after the end of my notice period (which, since I am lucky to live in Europe, is three months), but nothing signed. That’s where the risk element comes into play, and also where people’s perception differs depending on what you look like.
A few years ago, non-binary single-mum Jack Monroe rose to prominence on the British cooking scene thanks to her blog, Cooking on a Bookstrap, and subsequent anti-poverty campaigning. Previously, she had worked for the fire service but had to quit because they refused to make necessary schedule adjustments for childcare. Monroe ended up living on benefits and has spoken in detail about the struggle of it. The reasons that lead to my resignation and hers are widely different. Having a child to take care of, she obviously took an even bigger risk than me. Yet many people, who might find my risk-taking as a cis, white woman “brave” heavily criticised her as being lazy and living off the state. Similar criticisms are levelled at many people of colour when they take a leap which, if they were white, would be considered as just another risk.
Being able to take a risk in a way that is valued by society is a privilege which doesn’t just come from having a good degree and a good support network. It helps to look like what centuries of literature, decades of movies and a few years of Silicon Valley founders have told us successful risk-takers look like. In short, it helps to be white, cis and even more to be male with a good degree.
How about you? What's the biggest risk you've taken and how was it received? How did you deal with the worry? Email us about your experience and we will share in our next newsletter.
Lucie Goulet
Women in Foreign Policy founder
This newsletter, Ruchika Tulshyan discusses her experience as an immigrant in American workplaces and steps we can take to advance diversity and inclusion.
Read MoreThis month, sometime between holding interviews for new team members and organising meetings with universities to see how we could work together, Women in Foreign Policy turned four.
When I launched WiFP, I was channelling two angers: how unrepresentative the foreign policy workforce and decision-makers still are; and the fact that no one in the industry was taking my experience seriously as a potential employee because of my background in luxury fashion marketing. I also couldn't find a space gathering the career advice I needed to figure out my next step. So I took stock of my skills and decided to create my own space, guessing that if it was missing for me, it was also missing for other people. This is a recurrent theme in feminist organisations that I’ve had the chance to work with.
As the cliché goes, WiFP has exceeded my expectations. Sure, a small part of me hoped that I would end up delivering a talk at the FCO, or meet the Queen along the way, but I never thought it would actually happen.
Obviously, running this organisation in addition to my day job isn’t all spotlight and royals. But for every evening and weekend I get home and find the task ahead daunting and stressful, there is an email waiting in my inbox that reminds me that our content does indeed provide you with the advice and support you need to succeed in your career.
It doesn’t get much better than one of you telling me that you left a networking event “more at ease and with new-found determination”. There was a lot of fist pumping involved the first time one of our website readers told me WiFP interview advice had helped her to get into the Foreign Office. It turns out that pride and happiness don't fade and this has carried me through many doubts and tough times.
As we are planning for the next four years and how to best inspire and support your career, we have developed a quick anonymous survey. Completing it takes 5 min and you will be in with a chance to win one of two £15 Amazon vouchers.
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Thank you for reading us, supporting us, feeding back and spreading the word over the past four years. Onwards!
Lucie Goulet
Women in Foreign Policy founder
This week, as part of our authors series, Dr Christine Cheng shares her experience of writing a book on extralegal groups in post-conflict Liberia.
Read MoreThis month's theme at WiFP is women who work in the field of refugees. For many the refugee crisis is far removed from their own personal lives. It's only something most people hear about in snippets on the news or social media.
I myself did not comprehend the complexity and the magnitude of the crisis until I started working with refugees in 2015. I started off as a Refugee Status Determination Officer, meaning I interviewed refugees and decided on asylum applications. I started off doing so in the luxury of my home office, and was later deployed to one of the hotspots on the Greek islands, where my office was right in the middle of a refugee camp. There were mornings where I literally had to step over sleeping families to get inside, a reality check that changes everything.
I sometimes have a hard time dealing with the situation of inequality refugees often find themselves in. It's the state versus the asylum seeker; the older inhabitants of a state versus the new inhabitants; the aid worker versus those in need of aid. Anyone working with refugees at some point searches for their place within this crisis. I am still searching for it.
Do read our past interviews with Fahrinisa Fatima Oswald and Bathoul Ahmed, along with the new interviews below to learn more about other wonderful women working in the field of refugees.
We would still like to interview women who write policy for their respective governments on matters regarding refugees. Even more so we would love to interview female refugees who ended up working in foreign policy. If this is you, please contact WiFP.
And don’t forget to tune in to our brand new podcast hosted by Annika Erickson-Pearson and Ashley Pratt. We have two episodes coming out this month! More information below.
Loes is a contributor at Women in Foreign Policy.
Ashvini Rae is a 3rd year Politics and International Relations student at the University of York with a keen interest in foreign policy and International Development. She hopes to pursue a career in international human rights (specifically women’s rights) advocacy. One of her aims is to one day do something cool enough that means she’ll get interviewed for Women in Foreign Policy! Read Ashvini’s interview with Larissa Kennedy.
Read MoreFrom Ellen Johnson Sirleaf to Madeleine Albright, Indira Gandhi to Eva Perón, Anne Warburton to Malala Yousafzai, there are women all around the globe who are making groundbreaking, and glass shattering, moves. Heads of states, ambassadors, political leaders, and advocates for women’s rights -- more and more women finally have the means to achieve what they were held back from doing not so long ago.
As part of our Women Trailblazers series, this month at WiFP we want to draw attention to modern-day women on the front lines striving to break barriers. The ones negotiating peace deals, reporting on world crises, drafting human rights legislation, or leading their governments, often unseen or unappreciated. And we see you as, or becoming, these same women.
Through six featured interviews, we want you to ask yourself the big questions about how to get to where you want to be and seek the answers in the experiences of similar amazing, trailblazing women. Questions like:
How can I get started and how can I keep going? “Just dream big... I took on a bigger dream, but then I achieved it and then I took on a bigger dream and then I achieved it. It was as if I realized there was something bigger waiting for me. Keep pushing your dreams, because the bigger your dreams, the bigger your chances of achieving them.” (Diana Nassar, TechWomen Fellow Jordan)
How can I prepare for the challenges I’ll face? “Be resilient. People will slam the door on you when you want an interview, or you may face a layoff. And finally, just get out there!”(Lisa Yurika Thomas, Senior Producer at AJ+)
How do I overcome prejudice or doubt, in myself or others? “Fear comes from ignorance. When you read a book or talk to somebody...you might not agree on things, but you will realize you have the same needs and wants.” (Holly Dagres, Founder of The Iranist)
When I feel lost, what do I believe? “Don't let anyone discourage you or tell you that you can't do what you want to do. It might take a while to get where you want to be. We're not all lucky enough to have the straight route from school to ending up in the line of business that we want to end up in. I think if you really want it, it's actually possible.” (Nani Jansen Reventlow, Human Rights Lawyer)
What if I what I envision doesn’t yet exist? “If foreign policy is going to be relevant and progressive and significant, then it needs new voices and fresh ideas. Easier said than done, of course. But what ultimately drives this project…[is] I'm simply tired of women being subjugated and not taken seriously in politics.” (Marissa Conway, founder of the Centre for Feminist Foreign Policy)
How do I know I’m doing the right thing? “Communication is key...I’ve been able to do some of my best work by being able to communicate with other cultures...A lot of communication is just keeping quiet and not saying anything when engaging the people that we serve. When they say “This is what we need,” we have to listen.” (Morgan McClain-McKinney, USAID Foreign Service Officer)
Want to hear more from those inspiring women? Tune in to our brand new podcast, launching 31 July on SoundCloud, iTunes, and Stitcher. Every month, hosts Annika Erickson-Pearson and Ashley Pratt will dive into a career challenge, drawing from the wisdom women working in foreign policy have shared with us over the past four years to help you.
Two weeks ago, I visited Kenwood House, a stunning neoclassical villa on the outskirts of London. Dido Elizabeth Belle (from the movie Belle), daughter of a slave likely called Maria and of Sir John Lindsay, nephew of the house owner William Murray, grew up there. She is also one of the rare, non-servant, non-slave women of colour featured in 18th century art - it’s her in the portrait above, posing alongside her cousin.
So by the time the Carters’ Everything is Love dropped on Saturday, I had been thinking a lot about the representation of black people in art, one of the themes of their Apes**t video. It was shot at the Louvres, where I spent many hours as a child, never realising the fact it was a privilege that most people hanging on the walls looked like me, or questioning how there was such a great number of Egyptian artefacts on display.
Napoleon is part of the “how.” In power in France for about 15 years, Napoléon truly was the worst, though if you attended school in France, you wouldn’t know it. Napoléon is tightly linked to the perpetuation of slavery in France, along with his first wife Joséphine whom he crowns in David’s painting above.
Joséphine de Beauharnais was born in Martinique to a wealthy, white, Créole family that exploited a sugar cane plantation with 150 to 300 slaves. Because of the time and place of her birth, Joséphine’s image in history has been built around racist tropes of her time, tropes that are still visible in representations of black people today. There is the “magical n***a” stereotype, when an aging female slave predicted she would become queen; "the benevolent slaveholder," as growing up she played with slave children on the plantation; and finally, the trope of “sinful” interracial love, as her former lover, Revolutionary General Paul Barras, wrote in his memoirs that she’d had multiple affairs with black men and bore a mixed-race child.
However beyond a history that relies on racist stereotypes, what is most important is the rumour, rooted in Napoléon’s Memoirs, that Joséphine assisted him in re-establishing slavery across French territories. Its 1794 abolition had been ignored by most French colonies, and in 1802, Bonaparte decided to go back to it. Slavery wouldn’t be fully abolished across French territories, particularly the French Caribbean, until 1848.
Beyoncé knows her black history as well as she knows her art. Her mother Tina’s parents “were both French-speaking Creoles of predominantly French, African, Spanish and Native American descent”. There were millions of artworks to choose from at the Louvres, so every piece of art featured in Apes**t, including Napoléon’s Coronation, is significant.
Beyoncé and her formation aren’t just dancing in front of a self-proclaimed emperor crowning his wife, with the singer perfectly positioning herself in front of Joséphine. They are dancing in front of a big part of France’s heritage of slavery, which Beyoncé is somewhat linked to through her maternal ancestries.
The “symbolic retrieval of stolen power” goes further than reclaiming art and museum spaces - the Carters are actively defying a couple who created, profited from, and perpetuated systems of oppression to make sure people who looked like them and their dancers wouldn’t get equal access to spaces like the Louvres. The fact that they are doing it in France, where we still aren’t facing the question of race, in front a man like Napoléon, who we are still largely obsessed with and proud of, is even more meaningful. Your move, France.
Lucie Goulet is the founder and CEO of Women in Foreign Policy.
What do you think? Do you like to travel to learn or would you like to start? Any pro-tips you can offer? Reply to this email or let us know on social media (#WiFP). Emily Gray Salada is a newsletter coordinator at #WiFP and starting her MS in Foreign Service at Georgetown University this fall.
Read MoreThis newsletter, Women in Foreign Policy explores national identity while living in an increasingly globalized and at times, displaced, world. Tina Tailor, our UK TwitterCoordinator, shares her personal journey with us and reinforces why WiFP continues to advocate for more diverse voices in foreign policy.
Read MoreAhead of US Mother’s Day on Sunday, we are exploring the challenges women meet when they go back to work after maternity leave through the experience of Tina Tailor, our UK-based Twitter coordinator.
Read MoreDo you ever feel like we get mixed messages about planning careers? Much of the advice I’ve been given about careers and postgraduate study is contradictory. This experience is what prompted me to apply to work with WiPF-- I want more young women to know about our career interviews and workshops.
I’ve read countless blogs about how it’s ok not to rush into a career, and how we’re likely to change careers at least once. Yet, at university, it was made clear to me that choosing a path early on gives you an advantage -- at careers events, employers and successful alumni recommended choosing a ‘niche’ and getting relevant experience as early as possible.
Searching for jobs online, I’ve noticed that person specifications for entry-level jobs can be prescriptive. In Europe, you’re usually required to have an MA, previous experience in a similar organization, deep knowledge of a region or a track record of using a specific skill. In the U.S., the foreign-policy community has become self-selecting, as having a prestigious Masters or Ph.D. is now a necessity.
Where does this leave those who've changed their minds or those who took time out to explore options? They may be perceived as less passionate about pursuing their chosen career. I’m inspired by those who, over many years, have shown dedication to their chosen field. Still, we should be able to recognize their achievements without devaluing others’ non-linear routes to employment. Expecting people to gain their skills in a specific area will make foreign policy less diverse.
I have friends did a second postgraduate degree after realizing that they had been following the wrong path, but making this change was costly. In the UK, we’ve seen a sharp drop in mature and part-time students. Many women, particularly those with children, are not in a position to quit a full-time job to go back to university or take up a low-paid traineeship.
If you’ve delayed your career or changed path, you can end up feeling like you’re not where you should be. Last year, I volunteered at an NGO (which is not an option that is open to everyone, of course). Most of the other volunteers were older than me but they were happy with their decision to take time to build up experience. I found their attitude refreshing. However, we knew there was pressure to reach career milestones by a certain point, like the successful women working there had done.
From reading our interviews, it may seem that many of the women decided what they wanted to do early on, even before university -- but what we read is only part of their story. Everyone takes detours and gets some rejections. Even with a plan, you can’t predict where you’ll end up.
We’re privileged to be in a position where our careers are a primary concern, but this doesn’t mean that we shouldn't talk about career anxiety. The process of deciding what to do in life is stressful, and more so for those without access to good advice. I hope that having honest conversations like these will help women, especially those from disadvantaged backgrounds, make choices which will help them get where they want to be.
If you’ve changed careers and now work in foreign policy, or if you’re having difficulty making a career move, emails us back. We'd love to hear your story!
Lucy Lavery is a newsletter coordinator at Women in Foreign Policy.
Have you read Ellen Pao’s book yet? In Reset, she recounts her time in Silicon Valley, including at the venture capital firm Kleiner, which famously ended in a lawsuit for workplace discrimination and retaliation against women and other underrepresented groups.
I am currently half-way through the book -- Pao has just filed her suit and is starting to see the consequences at work and in the media. Kleiner hired a management crisis firm to smear her. Her memoir is an enlightening, depressing, and angering read. Among other things, it observes how Silicon Valley, which despite priding itself on disruption and innovation, preserves the status quo.
The system in Silicon Valley that Pao depicts is purposely built to protect, promote, and laud white, male, Ivy-League dropouts and keep out anyone who doesn’t look like them, including women.
As a VC, Pao invested in promising startups, joining their boards, hiring and advising their top management. She quickly realised that white, male, Ivy-League dropouts were most likely to get funding. Eventually, this became a self-fulfilling prophecy: when you only fund white, male Ivy League dropouts, the only people who succeed and make money are white, male, Ivy-League dropouts. (Not that there aren’t plenty of failures, but as Pao points out, no one is keeping track of that number).
Reading Pao’s account -- from being harassed by a colleague to how Kleiner forbade employees from discussing instances of harassment -- I had a reaction to her situation that really annoyed me. I wondered why she hadn’t left earlier. Clearly, the company was treating her poorly, undervaluing her work, and she had doubts about its culture from the get-go. I was annoyed at myself because this shouldn’t be about her decision to leave or stay. She should never have been put in a position where she felt she had to leave just because she was an Asian woman.
One of the questions at the heart of Reset is whether we can achieve equality with white, cis, able-bodied, straight men, within the current system. Can we keep it and work on bending and bettering it, or do we need to start over and create a new one entirely?
Pao initially tried to bend it. She was the good little soldier who accepted grunt work well below her abilities and didn’t make waves even when she was put in uncomfortable situations. Additionally, Pao went through the corporate channels to raise issues hoping the firm would help and questioned her own responsibility in situations, like Sheryl Sandberg’s Lean In told her to.
But it didn’t work, and it was only after months of trying the corporate-approved way that Pao filed her suit. There, she came face to face with another status-quo perpetuating system -- the justice system. The jury rejected all her claims and she lost.The New York Times named her degrading reviews as the clinching factor. Pao argues that performance reviews were stacked against her.
Pao may have lost the legal and corporate battle, but her suit was hailed as a landmark moment for gender equality in Silicon Valley. She played an important role in the fight to make sure pale, male, Ivy-League dropouts aren’t the only participants in innovation going forward. Pao setup Project Include, to “use data and advocacy to accelerate diversity and inclusion in the tech industry,” and she is now working with the Kapor centre “at the intersection of technology and racial and social justice.” Her work is all the more important when we consider that the key AI technologies are being developed from a white, male, Ivy-League dropout perspective.
Three years on, improvements are still slow to come but in the end, since the standard Silicon Valley firms were doing little for equality, Pao founded her own to further it. She stopped bending to and trying to better the old system and instead created the possibility of a new one.
The first thing I saw waking up yesterday was Elizabeth Warren's newsletter about "Victory in Alabama". This was an unexpected piece of good news, in morning news that rarely brings much. That piece of good news happened because, despite complicated ID laws, voters (especially black voters) showed up.
Every election over the past two years has reminded us that "decisions are made by those who show up" (I won't include any puzzled remark about the electoral college here). During the last British General Elections, the Conservative Candidate in my constituency won over the Liberal Democrat Candidate by 45 votes. FORTY-FIVE VOTES. That could have been 46 people saying, "I can't be bothered today". Personally, I couldn't show up in this one because I am not British, and I was too busy showing up in the French elections.
There are many ways to analyse Emmanuel Macron's victory, from the candidates that other the other parties picked to his unique reading of the mood in France. From my experience working on the ground, the key was that he inspired people who had never before shown up for politics. If you took the Eurostar between April and June, you might have seen En Marche people leafleting at Saint Pancras. For most of them, it was their first political engagement.
Showing up isn't just a way for you to influence the future of your country, it will impact your future very directly. If you're not there, you can't get the job. I can link every unlikely job I've had to my decision to just show up. While studying at the LSE, I worked at the British Museum as a curatorial assistant. A few months after I started, I asked the curator why I got the job. Apparently, he got a lot of emails from people interested in working at the BM, but few turned up to his office hours the way that I did when he suggested it.
I discussed showing up with Dr Christine Cheng, a Lecturer at King's College, in our latest interview. In 2016, Christine joined the Liberal Democrat Party. Then she decided to do a bit more, and ended up on the committee that worked on the Liberal Democrat's Foreign Policy in the last general elections.
Every candidate running for French president has to laud "La France qui se lève tot", ("France that gets up early"). Your alarm clock has become shorthand for how virtuous and hardworking you are. I'm sure everyone pulling night shifts appreciates.
Management literature has also adopted early mornings as the magic formula for success, in the process ignoring that electing to wake up early to work on a side project, meditate or organise your day is a luxury only people who have agency over their time can afford.
As annoyed as I am that people have decided that mornings are the answer to everything, I am actually a born early riser. As I type this, it's 5:30am and I've been up for over 30 minutes. Yet I wouldn't advocate it for everyone. I am an early riser because of my Circadian rhythm and because I go to bed early. I have accepted that this means missing out on many evening events, including events organised by night owls that could have been useful to my career.
Most literature focusing on waking up early argues that you are more productive in the morning. It's true. I used to be at my desk at Burberry by 7:30am. It was my best 90 minutes of the day, because no one else was around or answering emails. If all my colleagues had turned up before 8am, it wouldn't have been as productive.
Rather than pressuring people into getting up early, management and leadership thinkers should consider how owls and larks can cohabit in ways that are the most productive and happiest for everyone. From my perspective, that means corporations don't equate 'working late' with 'working hard', no evening team building events and fewer late meetings.
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